1. Be born again and filled with the Holy Spirit.
2. Keep yourself pure until you are married, no woman will like to deal with a man with a promiscuous past and present.
3. Be generous. Help the poor and needy. Know your God and submit to Him.
4. Do not be a drunk, no woman will sincerely want to wash after an irresponsible drunk.
4. Be loyal and faithful in your duties at work and when married
5.Do not wear a vest or sleeveless top without shaving your armpits or without an underwear… No woman, not even your wife, will like to see you that way.
6.Do not leave your nails uncut and unwashed, no woman appreciates a dirty man…
7. If you can’t afford good quality perfumes, use cheap ones.
8. Do not bleach your skin or apply make-up. No woman wants to look like her husband
9. Walking around in town with shorts and singlets are things responsible women don’t like in a man.
10. Never do things for a woman with a hope of getting something in return, expectations are dangerous. Do it because you simply want to and when married refuse to become every womans friend, responsible women dislike this behaviour.
11. Never contradict what your woman says in public, or scream at her in public. Haba that is babaric and uncultured.
12. Never stalk the woman that left you for another man.
13. Do not share your womans personal life with every one.
14. Men should never act on distress in relationships like checking your wifes phone, nagging her to death, and acting like a paranoid. You will simply release her to someone else by doing so.
15. Never dish out your entire drama on her relations. The woman just wants to know you have accepted her relations and herself.
16. Stop obsessing over your money. It’s good to eat healthy and work out but leave it at that, don’t try to intimidate other men who cannot, women like reasonable and compationate men. After all it is yours and hers now.
17. Never over do things, be simple, intelligent, smart, hardworking and mannered.
18. Never leave home without billing your responsibility and most of all your dignity.
19. Never leave your mouth unwashed or your privates unshaved. Men please learn to flush and wash your toilets!
20. Be a loving visionary, godly and loyal, women easily submit to such men.
21. Stop staring at every woman, You will create the wrong impression.
22. Never think you can threaten your woman into submission. You simply get her irritated and impossible.
23. Do chores willingly and happily. Know the art of home keeping, romance and child care. After all you are the Head right?….
24. Be in control of your desires, anger, actions and words. Do not be a rapist. No woman wants to be beaten. Be humble.
25. Respect is not really what you should demand for from every woman, what you need to know and stay in is the presence of God. Well respect is reciprocal. You earn your wife’s respect when you love her first. Afterall you are the Head. Lead by example. And finally, Never wish to be like any other man. There are others out there envying you for who you are… Be yourself, be a king without being intimidated by a strong queen!If she chose you, then be at rest.
When you decide to rule Nigeria or the world do it like Jesus Christ would.